Spiritual Manipulation

I remember as a young person being invited to a praise and prayer service.  In all honesty I went because I thought it might be a good place to meet a particular girl.  About a half hour into this service the leader started speaking in tongues.  I had witnessed this from a safe distance at other events.  This time was different because I was right in the middle of everything.  Eventually one of the leaders leaned over and whispered that I just needed to believe then I would receive my spiritual language.  I honestly tried, but nothing happened, and eventually it got a little embarrassing.  I wanted to be like everyone else; I also wanted to impress that girl with my spirituality.  So I did what any self-respecting 16 year old teen boy does – I faked speaking in tongues.  It worked- people were happy for me, they saw a new level of “Jesusness,” and I finally had a conversation with that girl.  All-in-all, a smashing success.

That evening has stayed with me for over 30 years.  I can’t recall the girl’s name.  But I vividly recall feeling spiritually inadequate.  The leader of that meeting made it clear that unless I received the gift of tongues I would never become a fully grown Christian.

For me the manipulation was tongues.  I have talked to others for whom it was the music they listened to, people they hung out with, political affiliations, sexual orientation, or believing a particular theology.  Regardless of the manipulation, the damage is devastating.

Why is it that we have such a hard time believing that God’s world view might be larger than ours?  Every once in a while I am asked to sign a confession of faith.  The reasoning usually boils down to “we want to make sure that you aren’t teaching false doctrine.”  The more I read these statements the more convinced I become that confessions of faith exist mostly to put God into a box and make me feel bad for asking questions.

Spiritual manipulation, whether it is requiring someone to prove their faith by speaking in tongues or asking an individual to sign a confession of faith, is dangerous.  At best it just makes God small and at worst it creates a guilt that turns people off from even exploring a life of faith.

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  1. Erwin Tiessen

    INTERESTING COMMENT ABOUT CONFESSIONS OF FAITH. IT MADE ME RETHINK THE SAME. I APPRECIATE YOUR BLOG. THANK YOU.

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